“Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. How do you know this is the experience you need? Because this is the experience you are having at this moment.” – Eckart Tolle
Sometimes it feels like all life is giving us are lemons. And it actually may be so, because we are given the experiences we need and are meant to have – and sometimes that means loads and loads of garbage heaped on top of us.
When we go through these stages of life it is so important to stay present, because that’s what’s going to make or break you. You have these experiences in order for you and your soul to grow and become wiser and more experienced. For this reason, we need to embrace whatever we go through and let it be whatever it may be. Only by doing this can we eventually understand why we are going through a certain situation and what we’re supposed to learn from it.
You will never experience something out of randomness. There is a reason to everything we do and go through. So instead of thinking and asking “why me?” embrace the experience and say “I can do this!” Because you definitely can – that’s why the experience was given to you in the first place. Once you push through, you will come out the other side much wiser and much more understanding towards the life you lead.