When we find ourselves in a difficult situation, we always have a choice: we can let the problem affect our feelings and control our actions – maybe for the rest of our life – or we can face the problem.
Sometimes taking action can be really hard, but we have to try, over and over again, until we succeed. There are times when this process is slower because we might need to recover from a traumatic event. If that’s the case, it’s important to carefully look inside ourselves and understand what we need exactly to heal completely.
If we manage to overcome a difficult situation and to recover, we come out of it much stronger and wiser, and it will be really difficult for us to be affected by the same kind of trouble.
To successfully overcome a traumatic event, it’s essential to do four things: accept what happened, go through the pain, focus on something that distracts and motivates us, and believe that soon we will feel much better.
You will never see a never-ending storm, it doesn’t exist, the sun always comes back to shine. Have faith and strive for your happiness.