Physically, we all make out a whole person. But mentally, we may not. The feeling of being incomplete is rooted within us and it might stem from something that has happened to you, or from someone you are missing. But no matter where it stems from, no matter the reason for this feeling of incompleteness, you are the only one that can fill those voids that you experience within.
I think we all have, or have previously experienced, these holes within ourselves, usually at certain stages of life. But some walk around with that constant feeling – a feeling they can’t shake no matter what – of not being whole. The reason you are unable to shake that feeling is most likely because you are trying to fill your void by looking in the wrong places.
The biggest mistake we make when it comes to healing or trying to feel complete is that we look outside of ourselves. The problem with this is that you will never find the answers outside, but only inside. You are the only one that can fill your void or rid yourself of that feeling of being incomplete. It is never up to anyone else – not your parents or your friends or a potential partner. Even though these people might offer their support to you, they can never mend you. Only you can do that. And that’s why you need to dig into yourself, find those dark, empty and shattered spaces within and shed some love and light on them.
Give yourself the things you need, and you will never need to feel deprived again. You will never need to go looking for love or for peace or happiness, because you will know exactly where to find it: right there, within you.